Rellik
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Just wanna say, May the 4th be with you
plus its my 4yr anniversary with RoH
I should really branch out more, but my anxiety gets the best of me sometimes lol
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Hello hello My name is Rellik or Luke either works for me, and I'd like to hank you for joining my club.. I thought to make this so people who are single can get to know each other and I dunno go with the flow? xD Anywho.. as you can see I am a Swtor Member who has aspirations of being an assistant or more someday. So first off, nice to meet everyone (virtually anyways lol) I am 43 and love video games and lifting weights. These are my happy places. I am ex Law Enforcement. Unfortunately I cannot work any longer. I am half blind (work related injury) I suffer from anxiety, depression, PTSD, and tremors, and no longer have the social skills I once had lol I worked in Law Enforcement for 15 years before getting injuried. I started in Corrections and worked my way up to working in a Tactical Unit. I have been single for 12 years now, and find it difficult to engage with people, I am hesitatnt and I don't talk very much anymore. Which makes it hardt o connect with people. I'm a good guy with a kind soul... As I said, I enjoy playing video games, whether it be on PC or console (xbox) I don't do much anymore, I stay in mostly, but do like to stay in shape the best I can. Music is a must for me. I help care for my mom, who has memory issues. I have a white boxer name Mabel I like history, Iike learning new things, whether its related to history, or DIY projects to keep me busy. I will admit, not being able to do what I once use to, does make me restless. Buuuut I am kind, compassionate, funny, have an awkward sense of humor, and honestly, justt tend to go with the flow..
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I need friends, or at least like minded people to hang with. Problem is, I have difficulties socializing and opening up. Trust issues I guess is another issue lol
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Curious, what is the best way to help with anxiety and depression? For me I try to think positive, and stay away from negativity. Of course music and playing video games helps too....
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I'm a SWTOR player, but I am curious....Is ESO worth jumping back into? I played it quite a bit when it first released, played for a year and havent really touched it since. Just curious if its worth getting back into??
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Hey Rellik
I have not been able to play much lately. However, if you played at the release and stopped, there have been quite a few changes to the game. I played in 2017 and came back to the game in 2020. I found the game to be very enjoyable. It is much easier to play solo. Group content seems a little easier as well. If you have any other questions feel free to throw a message out in ESO general chat in Discord.
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Fpr pics, nothing specific, a selfie or selfie with a pet, or with riends, etc.... I feel it helps a lil to know ppl, like you said. As for discord, I'm not opposed to it, but I myself don't use all that often. I use to, but have strayed away from it in the past year. I'm use to forums, like what we have here. Guess old habits die hard lol But again, not opposed to it, I would jus have to get use to it again and famalize myself with discord. I have discord, just hardly ever use it or logged in Communication is key, no matter what, and I'm all for chaatting and what not. But will admit I have withdrawn due to depression issues. I'm trying to put myself back out there. I use to be very social, cuz of what I use to do, but since I can't work, things change. But I'm trying to be more social, like I use to be, but its tough at times lol
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Hey all... Just a thought, but how does everyone freel about sharing pics? I think it would be a fun way to help get to know one another. It's just a thought, let me know what you all think about this idea Hope everyone is well and being safe Rellik/Luke
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Nice intro. I've been single for almost 12yrs now, and I also do weight lifting. Been into it for about 5yrs now, and love it. Its a good stress reliever lol I try to be as active as I can on here with the group, though I need more improvement lol But honestly its hard to do when I don't really know who is actually active in the group But nice to meet ya, I'm Luke
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Has anyone dealt with Selective mutism, or known anyone with it? (me not inclided, since I do suffer from it...) Just curious is all, I'm judged and looked down on constantly.....
I am ex Law Enforcement, and do suffer from acute PTSD, and also severe anxiety disorder due to trauma experienced while I was able to work. There are many factors that could cause or do cause selective mutism. I am starting to come to terms with it, but it can still be hard/difficult at times ButI keep my head up and try to smile and stay positive
Again was just curious
Hope everyone is doing well and having a good day/night...
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I learned about selective mutism when I was ~20 and it sounds exactly like what I was dealing with between 12-14. I had really bad social anxiety growing up and it got to the point that I couldn't really will myself to speak to anyone I wasn't already very familiar with (naturally my fam didnt know about this since I still talked to them and mental health wasnt something that we ever discussed ;;) It's really tough...I'm sorry that you've been receiving judgement for it. It's not something that you chose and it certainly doesn't make you any less than.
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Since I no longer work, I have become more introverted. Family and close friends I cann talk to, but if its someone new, or someone I havent seen for quite some time, its very difficult to say the least lol Its like, I want to speak, I know what I want to say, but it just doesnt want to come out. And that's the frustrating part about it, which in turn, makes me anxiety worse. It's a vicous cycle
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tell ya, makes it difficult to meet people for sure lol But I always try to keep my chin up, keep moving forward, and stay positive
despite the negativity that I may get from time to time. I'm very compassionate, just wish more people were, instead of judgemental...
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Hope everyone had a good 4th of July.......
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Longer weekends are always nice for sure lol. Its my bday week next week, bday is actually the 8th, but still, may start celebrating on the 4th lol
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How was your weekend? Mine was actually pretty boring lol
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Hello there How is everyone?
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I am curious, do we have a discord channel? And if so do we have sub-channels for each game. I'm a part of SWTOR, so is there a discord channel for that? I hope this isn't a stupid question
Thanks in advance...
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Hi Rellik, I sent you a PM with the official Discord start guide and our staring page for SWTOR.
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Feeling down...a bit of depression, anxiety, and ptsd. Would like to meet new ppl, but I am really socially awkward, and shy at times....Its difficult to meet ppl who don't judge you on first impressions....Noone is pefect....
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Hello friend! Sorry you are having a bit of a rough time. I understand how you are feeling, and as Bents said - you are not alone in your feelings. I hope you find some peace and comfort soon and don't feel this way too long. It's often hard for me to socialize with people as well, I get nervous. Some days are definitely better than others.
Take Care
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I'm a swtor player, but I also play tactical shooters on pc and console. Games vary from rpgs to shooters, but mostly shooters like the division, battlefield, zero hour. I do play eldr scrolls from time to time, and obviously swtor......just to name a few. I like shooters, since I am retired law enforcement, so yeah
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Dear friend, I understand and am sorry you are having a low day. Not here to spout platitudes, just here to sit with you under the dark cloud and acknowledge it's existence with you. Much love.
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Hi everyone. Did everyone have a good thanksgiving? Hope everyone is doing good and being safe
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Sup?
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What's up everyone?
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Needing something that is going to get me to open up and be a lil more active. I dislike my anxiety and timidness.....
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Oh, I have my good and bad days. But who doesn't right lol For once this has been a good day for me. lol. Everyone staying safe I hope..
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Hi all, how is everyone doing?
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I don't talk much and stay to myself quite a bit, but wanted to say to everyone. And hope all is well
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lol so which is it? lol jk Nice to meet ya giving you a virtual handshake
