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Rellik

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  1. Just wanna say,  May the 4th be with you :)  plus its my 4yr anniversary with RoH  :)  

     

    I should really branch out more, but my anxiety gets the best of me sometimes lol

  2. I need friends, or at least like minded people to hang with.  Problem is, I have difficulties socializing and opening up.  Trust issues I guess is another issue lol

  3. Curious, what is the best way to help with anxiety and depression?  For me I try to think positive, and stay away from negativity.  Of course music and playing video games helps too....

  4. I'm a SWTOR player, but I am curious....Is ESO worth jumping back  into?  I played it quite a bit when it first released, played for a year and havent really touched it since.  Just curious if its worth getting back into??

    1. Lazyhaze22

      Lazyhaze22

      Hey Rellik

       

              I have not been able to play much lately. However, if you played at the release and stopped, there have been quite a few changes to the game. I played in 2017 and came back to the game in 2020. I found the game to be very enjoyable. It is much easier to play solo. Group content seems a little easier as well. If you have any other questions feel free to throw a message out in ESO general chat in Discord.

  5. To apply or to not apply  That is the question  lol

  6. Has anyone dealt with Selective mutism, or known anyone with it?  (me not inclided, since I do suffer from it...)  Just curious is all, I'm judged and looked down on constantly.....

     

    I am ex Law Enforcement, and do suffer from acute PTSD, and also severe anxiety disorder due to trauma experienced while I was able to work.  There are many factors that could cause or do cause selective mutism.  I am starting to come to terms with it, but it can still be hard/difficult at times  ButI keep my head up and try to smile and stay positive :)  Again was just curious    

     

    Hope everyone is doing well and having a good day/night...

    1. Princess

      Princess

      I learned about selective mutism when I was ~20 and it sounds exactly like what I was dealing with between 12-14. I had really bad social anxiety growing up and it got to the point that I couldn't really will myself to speak to anyone I wasn't already very familiar with (naturally my fam didnt know about this since I still talked to them and mental health wasnt something that we ever discussed ;;) It's really tough...I'm sorry that you've been receiving judgement for it. It's not something that you chose and it certainly doesn't make you any less than. 🫂

    2. Rellik

      Rellik

      Since I no longer work, I have become more introverted.  Family and close friends I cann talk to, but if its someone new, or someone I havent seen for quite some time, its very difficult to say the least lol  Its like, I want to speak, I know what I want to say, but it just doesnt want to come out.  And that's the frustrating part about it, which in turn, makes me anxiety worse.  It's a vicous cycle 

    3. Rellik

      Rellik

       tell ya, makes it difficult to meet people for sure lol  But I always try to keep my chin up, keep moving forward, and stay positive :)  despite the negativity that I may get from time to time.  I'm very compassionate, just wish more people were, instead of judgemental...

  7. I am curious, do we have a discord channel?  And if so do we have sub-channels for each game.  I'm a part of SWTOR, so is there a discord channel for that?  I hope this isn't a stupid question 😛  Thanks in advance...

    1. Yiss

      Yiss

      Hi Rellik, I sent you a PM with the official Discord start guide and our staring page for SWTOR.

  8. Feeling down...a bit of depression, anxiety, and ptsd.  Would like to meet new ppl, but I am really socially awkward, and shy at times....Its difficult to meet ppl who don't judge you on first impressions....Noone is pefect....

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    2. Annamika

      Annamika

      Hello friend!  Sorry you are having a bit of a rough time.  I understand how you are feeling, and as Bents said - you are not alone in your feelings.  I hope you find some peace and comfort soon and don't feel this way too long.  It's often hard for me to socialize with people as well, I get nervous.  Some days are definitely better than others.

      Take Care

    3. Rellik

      Rellik

      @Bents88

       

      I'm a swtor player, but I also play tactical shooters on pc and console.   Games vary from rpgs to shooters, but mostly shooters like the division, battlefield, zero hour.  I do play eldr scrolls from time to time, and obviously swtor......just to name a few.  I like shooters, since I am retired law enforcement, so yeah

    4. Esse_Veritas

      Esse_Veritas

      Dear friend, I understand and am sorry you are having a low day. Not here to spout platitudes, just here to sit with you under the dark cloud and acknowledge it's existence with you. Much love.

  9. To my SWTOR friends and allies, how is RP?  Asling for a friend lol jk

  10. Needing something that is going to get me to open up and be a lil more active.  I dislike my anxiety and timidness.....

  11. I don't talk much and stay to myself quite a bit, but wanted to say to everyone.  And hope all is well :)

  12. How difficult is RP, I have never RP'd before and I am interested in learning possibly.  Though I aqm finding difficult to interact with ppl, due to my shyness, and I am very timid and quiet.  I want to make new friends, or at least try, and need positivity in my life, but of course who doesn't want that lol........Oh and I pay swtor obviously lol

  13. Had some minor surgery done, and everything went well, now just in the recovery stage, oh what fun lol.

  14. Finding it difficult to connect or talk.  So use to being a lone wolf.....

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